This iconic Rachel Whalen quote resonates with loss parents because it’s simple and it’s true. And the love that we carry for our children in our hearts is one of the most powerful ways to honor them on their birthdays. Use this card to express the love you carry for your deceased child.
Card Text:
Front: Before I ever carried the pain, I carried you. And in my heart, I carry you still – Rachel Whalen
Inside: Thinking of you with so much love on your birthday and all year round.
(Quote used with Rachel’s permission. Check out her website for more of her beautiful work.)
Download Free Printable PDF
SGPCard-Before-I-Ever-Carried-The-Pain-I-Carried-You-Baby-Loss-Birthday.pdf
About our Greeting Cards:
All greeting cards on Adrian’s Elephant were created using templates and elements found in Canva.com and are completely free to download and print for personal purposes. Read more about Canva’s use policies here.
Cards are sized to print on standard 8.5″ x 11″ paper, and are also compatible with greeting card templates such as those produced by Avery or many other vendors of office supplies. If your template is smaller than 8.5″ x 11″, you will need to scale the design to fit. You can also print via many online services or through a local print shop.
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All cards are also customizable via Canva. Some cards may require a Canva subscription for premium elements; click on the individual template for details. (If you don’t have a subscription and only want a single design, please contact me. I will create it for you.)
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Additional resources & support for bereaved families:
Sea Glass Parenting; Supporting Bereaved Families in Love & Grief
Resources Homepage for Bereaved Parents & Families
Notes for the Bereaved; Thoughts on Life after Loss
Resources Blog: 30 Ways to Honor Your Deceased Child
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