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I came home to a fully furnished nursery and no living child · my parents · Writing as a means of reflection and processing in grief · Alternate reality or what could have been · Dividing line between miscarriage and stillbirth · Breaking the taboo of talking about death · Florida · Decreased fetal movement · My doula during Adrian's pregnancy and delivery · Help and support after the death of a child · My pain has a purpose · Things people don't understand about child loss and grief · One year ago · Grief is like having a long-term concussion · natural vs safe · emotions personified · mother's day · Emotional photography · I wanted minimal interventions in labor and delivery · Grieving in Lake Tahoe · Going through the motions of life and still feeling disconnected after losing a child · Customizable child loss graphics · breath is grounding · Good intentions are best revealed by changing behavior you've been told is hurtful · Mexico · Moving to a new city without my son after his death · Adrian's conception · Baby loss poetry · cousin Caleb · Permission to do and be whatever you need after loss · "Have another baby" as if children as interchangeable · Platitudes rewritten · Show up when your loved ones are grieving · anti-depressant medication · Severe headache in pregnancy may indicate preeclampsia · alles geht · Please listen · "Everything happens for a reason" · Body image and body dysmorphia after pregnancy loss · Adrian's funeral · I probably watch too much TV · Everyone is struggling with something · Finding grace in life after loss · Hearing about death reminds us of our own mortality · thoughts about deities or a higher power · Anger and rage after loss · died by suicide · death certificate for a stillborn child · 39 weeks of pregnancy · Wanting to die but not feeling actively suicidal · Baby loss family · informed decision making in pregnancy · Second-hand grief · the bereaved do not need to be "fixed" · Miranda's guest posts on other sites · suicidal thoughts or ideations · The war between nature and medicine that cost my son his life · drowning in waves of grief · I was obsessed with spreadsheets and planning · early days after the loss of my son · 29 June 2017 · Grief in the body; Physical manifestations of grief · fun is hard when you're grieving · New Zealand · your words are hurtful · I will always wonder about the color of your eyes · Adrian's Elephant on Instagram · Memories of my pregnancy with Adrian · Adrian's death · Swelling in pregnancy can be a sign of preeclampsia · "I can't imagine" · how many children do you have? · Secondary losses after the loss of a child · There is no "safe point" in pregnancy · cousin March · "strange" things bereaved parents do · stillborn but still BORN · mementos & memorabilia of my child · Life insurance often covers a fetus past 20 weeks gestation · An exhaustion that is more than just physical · You don't have to be brave · fear after loss · counseling or therapy · pregnancy 41 weeks · nothing in life is guaranteed · fog of grief · Acknowledging pain is a powerful thing · "It's not your fault" · International wave of light · I wish time would just standstill · Integration of loss and grief · thankful and grieving at the same time · the Before and the After · "Try again" or "trying again" after the death of a child · medical management of pregnancy · You don't "get over" the death of a child · I love the ocean · 30 June 2017 · Amy Anne · Sample funeral service for a child · The cult of positivity and how it hurts · not being able to cry · Please dont second guess or victim blame the bereaved · There is often more going on than what we see · always two · Washington D.C. · What does it mean to "heal" or "cure" grief? · Liam · in the face of unsolicited advice · I wanted a natural birth · I still looked pregnant after my full-term stillbirth · money matters and death · I wish I could go back in time · Grandmother · My time in the hospital before and after Adrian's birth · Asking "How are you?" of someone who is grieving · Flash poetry · regret after the loss of a child · loving condescension · I still look pregnant · think before you speak · "But" is an invalidator · the power of truly informed consent · pregnancy 40 weeks · "meant to be" · physical activity is grounding after loss · 1 in 160 pregnancies ends in stillbirth · my love/hate relationship with Facebook · there but for a twist of fate · windows on other worlds · How much does a funeral cost for a child · Messy beautiful life · Alex · my body failed to keep my son alive · Kaua'i · embrace the unpleasant feelings · I'm trying to be okay · Moving forward · echoes of the past · music and singing during grief · Empty arms after the loss of a child · blaming the parents when a child dies · Adrian's Elephant · "No!" · Motherhood · signs from the afterlife? · honoring Adrian's memory · The myth of the noble victim · warning signs of stillbirth · I can't breathe · Permanence of death · Running away from life after the death of my son · Grief is not a competition · Making sense of or rejoining life after loss · Perfect birth · beautiful terror of pregnancy after loss · your baby could die · the problem with positivity · crunchy parenting groups · simplicity of early grief · open letter · Second blue line on the pregnancy test · When people project their own feelings on the bereaved · my stillbirth story · choosing to live when you yearn to die · Adrian's due date · Reality of life after the loss of a child · thankfulness is not a cure for grief · Dating while grieving is complicated · Adrian's birthday · friend Ali · Charles Xavier · Mirror the reality of the person who is hurting · intense fit of fetal activity · The problem with handing out the number to the suicide hotline · I don't call my daughter a rainbow baby because she deserves her own identity · Friends don't always understand changes after loss · patterns of fetal activity · our mental health after loss · acceptance of fear and uncertainty · silence at your birth · If god's plan includes the death of my child I don't think I want a relationship with god · time-measured kick counts · religious or spiritual beliefs · Support groups · I don't want to think about the future because it's a future without my son · "I went overdue and my baby was fine" · Traveling as a means of escape after loss · I honestly thought the chances of stillbirth were 1 in a million, not 1 in 160 · "it happened for a reason" · The question you need to ask if you are worried someone might harm themselves · Pregnancy brochure · Anniversaries of important dates; Calendar of After · finding beauty in the broken · Commonality and community in loss and grief · comfort cub · Friend Lillian · I sometimes feel like an outsider in my grief · thoughts about the afterlife · suicidal-with-a-plan · Plagiarism in the child loss community · dreaming about Adrian or Peanut · I feel off-balance · California · Saki · San Diego · Uncle Mason · Letters to my dead son · fork in time · printable graphics · instant connection with others in grief · Adrian lives on in me · secular funeral · "Don't talk like that" and other things people say to those who are suicidal · Brightsiding after Death and Loss · dangers of home dopplers · darkness of loss and grief · Baby Grace · everything happens but not for a reason · There is no "at least" in loss and grief · breastmilk and lactation after loss · non stress testing (NST) · disloyal to your memory · the nurses at Adrian's birth were amazing · expectant management of overdue pregnancy · Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) · Reflections on my life before and after loss · physicality of grief · importance of kick counting · no right or wrong way to cope · Aunt Jessica · Refuge in Grief · cousin Neal · Honoring my deceased child in every way possible · I think I want people to go away but I also need community · Uncle Tyler · I wish I had saved you · Depictions of loss and grief in the media · my own personal rain cloud · Also published at Pregnancy After Loss Support Magazine · I used to be obsessed with control but that changed after loss · I didn't realize how much my childhood was tied into my experience as a parent and in loss · Induction of Labor (IOL) · need to feel busy · Better things to say to someone who is grieving · I don't normally curse but sometimes the word "fuck" seems apt · 4th Trimester Bodies Project · The experience of child loss in the military · the second year after loss · Sea Glass Family · Evidence-based pregnancy and parenting groups · do I have to have a funeral? · bluebonnets and daisies · Crying and tears · high blood pressure in pregnancy · right upper quadrant pain · Ring theory in grief · we used to say "committed suicide" · single mother by choice (SMC) · I don't want to die anymore · Aunt Alexis · "You're so strong"; strong-shaming the bereaved · Bereaved motherhood · I think everything is a metaphor · overdue pregnancy · My child shouldn't require a trigger warning · Grief lasts forever because that's how long love lasts · Adrian's ashes · physical feeling of absence · also shared on Medium.com · Uncle Jackson · Parenting in loss · I am a different person after losing my son · also published on Scary Mommy · It's okay to not be okay · treehugging nature lover · flashbacks of Adrian's death · idealization of rainbow babies · The complications of losing weight after the loss of a child · I feel broken after the death of my child · "Passed away" and other euphemisms for death · Living on fast forward after the death of a child · This strange duality where I am fine and also heartbroken · Friday the 13th · I AM a mother · Holding onto baby weight after losing a child · Risk factors in pregnancy · Holidays after the death of a child · good intentions · survivor's bias · body work: acupuncture & massage · "you're scaring me" · I'm scared to forget you · placental abruption · humor even in grief · Adrian is a big brother · Adrian will always be my firstborn child · Movements matter; importance of tracking fetal movement in pregnancy · "better" is a relative term · it's going to be okay · Maternity photos from my pregnancy with Adrian · Happiness is complicated when you're grieving · "waking up" again after the fog of grief · Suicide prevention · I am not okay · Yoga · "babies run out of room" · "are you feeling suicidal?" · Donor-conceived family · I lost friends after my loss · desire to rewind or rewrite the past · "everything is going to be fine" · actively suicidal; suicidal-with-a-plan · Celebrating the birthday of deceased child · Adrian's Molly Bear · I wonder so many things about you · Pregnancy and Infant Loss (PAIL) Awareness · Life goes on after loss and that is really hard · atheism agnosticism and general disbelief · Support people can be unintentionally hurtful · donating breastmilk after pregnancy loss · things that fill up my time during grief · Stretch marks or tiger stripes · new and old grief · "There is no heartbeat" · power of authenticity · I keep coming back to this concept of "fair" after the death of my child · Tragedy isn't just the thing that happens to OTHER people · Sea Glass Parenting · I fight against happiness after loss · Going back to work after the death of my child · Akhilandeshvari · help with funeral costs for a child · advanced maternal age (AMA) · Excited and looking forward to things before loss · Adrian's footprint tattoo on my ribs · pregnancy 39 weeks · High risk pregnancy · Adrian's birth · Adrian's name · Things people say to the bereaved · Wearing baggy clothing to hide postpartum body after loss · "morning sickness" is all day sickness · Aunt Caroline · feeling alive again after loss · 1 in 2000 · HELLP Syndrome · Thanksgiving · my friend Jake · photographs of Adrian · hiding from the world after loss · I was a pregnancy nerd · Loss parent AND pro-choice · funeral for a child · Adrian's hand and footprints · grief in older generations · stillbirth prevention · San Antonio · Feelings are ALWAYS valid · Peanut · Stillborn babies don't get a birth certificate · Declined induction · sometimes I need to be physically alone · "and" and anding · Adoption is not the answer to my child's death or my problems with pregnancy · Awkwardness surrounding loss and grief · freedom of movement in labor · not being able to miss you · Feeling phantoms kicks or phantom movement after loss · safe pregnancy road show · myths about pregnancy · tearing pain underneath right ribs · Published in Love What Matters · Halloween · Telling my child loss story · gestational diabetes in pregnancy · Isolation or loneliness in loss and grief · Baby Ava Rayne · who I used to be · Landon's Legacy Retreat · identity in the child loss community · Truths about grief · Time doesnt heal not by iteself · Feeling empty or numb after loss · Nature isn't perfect · A child born subsequent to loss is not a replacement · importance of testing urine in pregnancy · I don't mind prayer if it has been invited · Preeclampsia · I spent a lot of time walking after the death of my son · In memoriam photo · I live for you · Love letters to my child · Mental health professional; counselor or therapist · ennui and depression after loss · Donor Timothy · questions answered on Quora.com · "people here will miss you"

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