Adrian James 3 - Feaure
Adrian holding Miranda's necklace at the hospital (Mamarazzi Photography)

016 – Wed, Jul 5, 2017 at 6:58 AM

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When I was getting ready to leave the hospital, the midwife asked me where I got my necklace. I almost laughed. It felt strange to say it was a replica from one on the Vampire Diaries. It felt strange to talk about something so “normal.”

I had that necklace remade in silver when I was deployed. They did well with it. It looked exactly the same. I remember so many things about that deployment. It was hard, but it was worth it. Even now, everything was worth it. I will never regret anything I did to prepare for you.

I love you.

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Letters to Adrian are real letters from a mother to her stillborn child. Letters are shared here in periodic batches.

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055 – Fri, Nov 10, 2017, 6:48 PM

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022 – Fri, Jul 21, 2017 at 12:18 AM

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065 – Sat, Dec 2, 2017, 8:06 PM

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015 – Sun, Jul 2, 2017 at 8:19 PM

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114 – Sun, Jun 24, 2018, 1:15 PM

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118 – Fri, Jul 6, 2018, 7:43 PM

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122 – Tue, Jul 24, 2018, 9:28 PM

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063 – Sun, Nov 26, 2017, 9:45 AM

031 – Fri, Sep 8, 2017 at 12:16 AM

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050 – Sun, Oct 29, 2017, 1:00 PM

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119 – Wed, Jul 18, 2018, 1:10 PM

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127 – Thu, May 2, 2019, 12:03 PM

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113 – Sun, Jun 24, 2018, 1:02 AM

012 – 39w6d(2) – So close!

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136 – Thu, Sep 12, 2019, 6:40 PM

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073 – Sun, Dec 31, 2017, 5:10 PM

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128 – Thu, May 23, 2019, 9:11 PM

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130 – Thu, Jun 27, 2019, 9:31 PM

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126 – Fri, Mar 29, 2019, 9:39 AM

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041 – Sat, Sep 30, 2017 at 8:30 PM

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034 – Mon, Sep 25, 2017 at 8:28 PM

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109 – Sun, May 27, 2018, 8:35 PM

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061 – Wed, Nov 22, 2017, 7:01 PM

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111 – Sun, Jun 10, 2018, 9:31 PM

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071 – Mon, Dec 25, 2017, 6:45 PM

018 – Sun, Jul 9, 2017 at 1:32 PM

Miranda's feet in the sand, New Smyrna Beach, Florida (Miranda Hernandez)

124 – Tue, Sep 4, 2018, 9:00 PM

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059 – Wed, Nov 15, 2017, 7:52 PM

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120 – Thu, Jul 19, 2018, 12:47 PM

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036 – Tue, Sep 26, 2017 at 1:59 PM

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081 – Tue, Jan 23, 2018, 8:29 PM

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045 – Fri, Oct 13, 2017, 6:25 PM

029 – Tue, Aug 22, 2017 at 9:50 PM

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105 – Mon, May 14, 2018, 9:33 PM

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098 – Thu, Apr 29, 2018, 8:58 PM

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108 – Sat, May 26, 2018, 11:02 AM

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138 – Thu, Feb 6, 2020, 11:39 AM

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102 – Fri, May 11, 2018, 11:56 AM

020 – Tue, Jul 18, 2017 at 2:29 PM

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097 – Wed, Apr 28, 2018, 11:08 PM

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129 – Tue, Jun 25, 2019, 9:11 PM

033 – Tue, Sep 19, 2017 at 6:35 PM

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112 – Sat, Jun 16, 2018, 3:59 PM

Stream, North Lake Tahoe, California (Miranda Hernandez)

046 – Sun, Oct 15, 2017, 8:09 PM

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093 – Wed, Mar 21, 2018, 4:18 PM

Miranda and Adrian's Elephant at Pinecrest Lake

069 – Sat, Dec 23, 2017, 7:22 PM

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116 – Sat, Jun 30, 2018, some time in the morning

Miranda and Adrian's Elephant on the California coast (Miranda Hernandez)

068 – Sat, Dec 16, 2017, 9:55 PM

009 – 33w2d

019 – Sun, Jul 16, 2017 at 12:17 PM

Sunset on the California coast (Miranda Hernandez)

079 – Wed, Jan 17, 2018, 4:24 PM

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023 – Fri, Jul 28, 2017 at 5:18 PM

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054 – Mon, Nov 7, 2017, 8:10 PM

005 – 19w6d – Happy New Year

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135 – Wed, Aug 28, 2019, 8:04 AM

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074 – Sun, Dec 31, 2017, 7:59 PM

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021 – Thu, Jul 20, 2017 at 6:24 AM

Climbing vines on Hatley Castle, Victoria, British Columbia (Miranda Hernandez)

137 – Tue, Dec 31, 2019, 10:01 PM

Flowers in Assiniboine Park, Winnipeg, Manitoba (Miranda Hernandez)

133 – Wed, Jul 3, 2019, 11:32 AM

Iceplant on the California coast (Miranda Hernandez)

080 – Sat, Jan 20, 2018, 4:09 PM

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123 – Wed, Aug 29, 2018, 3:16 PM

Miranda and Elephant on the California coast

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099 – Wed, May 2, 2018, 7:46 PM

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106 – Fri, May 18, 2018, 6:18 PM

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125 – Fri, Oct 19, 2018, 1:08 PM

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066 – Mon, Dec 11, 2017, 8:16 PM

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104 – Sun, May 13, 2018, 3:04 PM

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013 – Thu, Jun 29, 2017 at 10:22 AM

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083 – Mon, Jan 29, 2018, 5:09 AM

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010 – 38w4d – Almost there…

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070 – Sat, Dec 23, 2017, 9:12 PM

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087 – Wed, Feb 7, 2018, 4:16 PM

Miranda and Adrian's Elephant

100 – Sat, May 5, 2018, 5:30 PM

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060 – Fri, Nov 17, 2017, 8:02 PM

004 – 12w1d – Your Tiny Feet

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014 – Thu, Jun 29, 2017 at 6:53 PM

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090 – Sat, Feb 24, 2018, 5:12 AM

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082 – Wed, Jan 24, 2018, 3:46 PM

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035 – Tue, Sep 26, 2017 at 11:09 AM

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096 – Tue, Apr 24, 2018, 11:09 PM

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025 – Sun, Aug 6, 2017 at 12:26 AM

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028 – Wed, Aug 16, 2017 at 6:07 PM

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094 – Fri, Apr 6, 2018, 11:46 PM

Desert in California (Miranda Hernandez)

107 – Sat, May 19, 2018, 2:02 PM

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075 – Tue, Jan 9, 2018, 10:04 PM

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132 – Mon, Jul 1, 2019, 9:45 PM

007 – 29w6d – Cravings and a Nest

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058 – Tue, Nov 14, 2017, 7:10 PM

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Bench on the California coast (Miranda Hernandez)

078 – Mon, Jan 15, 2018, 11:32 AM

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095 – Fri, Apr 13, 2018, 10:23 PM

026 – Sun, Aug 13, 2017 at 6:17 AM

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067 – Tue, Dec 12, 2017, 9:42 PM

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062 – Thu, Nov 23, 2017, 1:51 PM

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091 – Sun, Mar 11, 2018, 1:10 PM

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038 – Thu, Sep 28, 2017 at 9:36 AM

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027 – Mon, Aug 14, 2017 at 12:15 PM

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051 – Tue, Oct 31, 2017, 5:32 PM

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064 – Wed, Nov 29, 2017, 4:36 PM

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017 – Thu, Jul 6, 2017 at 6:24 AM

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101 – Sun, May 6, 2018, 12:13 AM

Adrian and Elephant

131 – A Letter to My Son on His Second Birthday

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043 – Wed, Oct 4, 2017, 7:43 PM

Miranda and Adrian's Elephant at Chacchoben Mayan Ruins

053 – Sun, Nov 5, 2017, 1:07 PM

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103 – Sat, May 12, 2018, 5:32 PM

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115 – Sat, Jun 30, 2018, 1:03 AM

Esquimalt Lagoon, Victoria, British Columbia, Canada (Miranda Hernandez)

037 – Tue, Sep 26, 2017 at 3:02 PM

Vines, Kaua'i, Hawai'i (Miranda Hernandez)

047 – Thu, Oct 19, 2017, 4:54 PM

Tree in Big Sur, California (Miranda Hernandez)

057 – Tue, Nov 14, 2017, 6:28 PM

Adrian's Elephant and Miranda's uniform top

056 – Fri, Nov 10, 2017, 8:29 PM

Keālia Beach, Kaua'i, Hawai'i (Miranda Hernandez)

040 – Thu, Sep 28, 2017 at 5:43 PM

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110 – Sun, Jun 3, 2018, 9:11 AM

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089 – Sat, Feb 17, 2018, 3:55 PM

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049 – Tue, Oct 24, 2017, 5:26 PM

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121 – Mon, Jul 23, 2018, 9:04 PM

Sage flowers in Assiniboine Park, Winnipeg, Manitoba (Miranda Hernandez)

134 – Tue, Jul 23, 2019, 1:34 PM

030 – Mon, Aug 28, 2017 at 6:21 AM

Koloa, Kaua'i, Hawai'i (Miranda Hernandez)

092 – Tue, Mar 20, 2018, 2:26 PM

California coast (Miranda Hernandez)

076 – Wed, Jan 10, 2018, 11:47 AM

024 – Wed, Aug 2, 2017 at 6:13 PM

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139 – A Letter to My Son on His Third Birthday

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088 – Thu, Feb 15, 2018, 6:40 PM

California coast (Miranda Hernandez)

084 – Thu, Feb 1, 2018, 8:44 PM

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072 – Sat, Dec 30, 2017, 10:51 AM

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011 – 39w6d(1) – What does Mama look like?

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