Adrian James Hernandez was stillborn on 30 June 2017. This site exists to honor his memory and to share resources to prevent stillbirth for other families.
writing as a means of reflection and processing in grief
I wrote letters to my son throughout my pregnancy. When he died, I continued to write. It had become a habit. I wonder sometimes if I write for him or for me. I think the answer is — yes. Letters to Adrian are lightly edited for clarity and mechanics, and to protect privacy. They are otherwise presented exactly as written.