Preventing Stillbirth Starts With Outreach

Since I first starting researching safe pregnancy practices following Adrian's death, I have wanted to put together a road show to share this information with the world. Today I ran my first booth at the Monterey Birth and Baby Fair pic.twitter.com/Qnm4PCYPpg

— Miranda Hernandez | Adrian's Mother (@AdriansMother) November 25, 2019

This first booth went so well! Excited to try again at the family fair next Spring.

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The Phone Call you Never Expect to Receive; Supporting a Loved One After the Loss of a Child | overlaid on image of flowers (Miranda Hernandez)

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The Phone Call you Never Expect to Receive; Supporting a Loved One After the Loss of a Child

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Miranda, Peanut, and Adrian's elephant in Newport Beach (photo used with permission)

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17 August 2019

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30 June 2019

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